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May 2007
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Posted by: Krisi at 2:14PM EST on May 31, 2007
(I'm leaving this message in several locations to share my strong opinion with others and see if anyone else feels the same. Is there anything we can do as parents to try to change this issue?)...
I can't imagine how hard it must be for you teachers with all the paperwork your normal school day leaves you with and then to add grading homework on top of it!
I am a full-time Mom who happens to like the time I spend with my kids. No offense, but I HATE HOMEWORK! Geesh. Why can't the system teach my kids what they need to know the 7 hours a day 5 days a week that they have my kids? These poor kids come home from school after putting in a full day and then are expected to sit for another 1/2 hr - 2 hours and do MORE SCHOOLWORK! It ticks me off. I feel home time should be home time and school time s/b school time! What about time to play outside, to play a fun sport or take up a musical instrument, dancing lessons etc. or to spend time helping Mom cook, reading, going to church, FAMILY TIME!
These kids get no break from school and these teachers are left w more work / time grading papers! Is there a way this can be stopped? I don't know about the rest of parents but I would like to send a letter at the beginning of the school year and let my kids teachers know that we expect them to be great students... compliant, respectful, etc. but that due to family priorities, my kids do not participate in homework. As long as they are fully applying themselves while AT SCHOOL and are responsible, respectful, honest kids... I care about their character much more than their grades. Let them do really well in class, but still only get a C because they do not do homework. That'd suit me just fine.
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Posted by: Kathy at 11:55AM EST on May 24, 2007
So you and some friends are having a graduation party for your graduading seniors. The party is from 5:00 til 8:00 on Sunday. One of the parents calls you trying to figure out how much alcohol to buy for the adults. In your opinion, alcohol should not be served, seeing that this party is for the under 21 kids. The party is not at your house. Would it be appropriate to suggest not serving alcohol or should you just not imbibe?
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Posted by: Sherice Andersen at 4:19PM EST on May 5, 2007
I have run out of ideas of what to do, my daughter is 16 about a year ago we moved to Tooele Ut. Since we have moved here my 16 yr old will not even try to make friends or socialize, all she wants to do is move back to Salt Lake. All I hear is how I have ruined her life and she is the mother of my 9 yr old since she watches her when I am at work, I have offered to take her to stay with her old friends but she refuses and then she gets mad at me when I go out and tells me that I need to be home at a certain time.....She has gotten where she has caused so much hostility and tension in the house the my 17 yr old moved out and my 9 yr old would rather live with her dad and I would rather be any where but here...She is alwasy angry and tells me it is me and my fault I just do not know what to do does someone have some idea or help?
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Posted by: San at 2:20PM EST on May 3, 2007
Recently my husband's daughter's school sent a report from two of her classes that she's failing those two classes. Anyone that knows Rachel and has spent any time with her knows that she's not only pretty, but very intelligent - so the failing of two classes isn't about it being too hard. In the last several years her grades have begun to plummet frightfully, all the while maintaining her popularity and social standing. This last issue has opened a can of worms for me because that evening he sat her down for about a half hour and told her how it was going to be from now on. For a while she would come directly home from school without friends and put her nose into the school books and homework, no going out and no one coming to visit. Two days later something important came up and she was back to doing what she did before he laid down some legit bounderies. He never once told her NO and even okay'd her staying out and having friends over. I questioned whether this was an appropriate choice on his account and he said there was nothing he could do but let her do it. This has been going on for four years now in which time I have tried to be strong and supportive of my husband and to stand by his side and to set bounderies, all of which get no support from my husband and certainly not from the girl. Does anyone have anything of real help to offer? I am at my wits end here and feeling like this is all so hopeless. How can I help the dad, my husband, to learn how to set and maintain proper bounderies???
Thanks ~ San
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Posted by: Daisy at 11:30AM EST on May 3, 2007
Can anybody tell me about Facebook? I know it's like myspace, but it's my understanding that Facebook is the way to go these days.
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