Grandma has Cancer again
Posted by:
Dorothy Stahlnecker on
December 29, 2007 at
6:28PM EST
Even if you've only read some of my comments and not my blog www.grammology.com you already know my family is my treasure. There isn't a day we don't speak to each other and try to get together at least weekly.
Every part of my life is family and friends. So the least I can say is we are all upset that I've just been told I have cancer back in my ovary. It's the only darn thing left, from a hysterectomy I had in the 80's. Back then they left the ovary instead of taking it out. Today I'd tell them take it all...
Knowing what and how to tell my family was one of the most difficult things I've ever had to do. Hiding my fear was the hardest part. It's taken me three days to be convinced I'm not going to die. After all I just fought my first cancer battle in 05. Why is this any different. I think it's where it is. When you say Ovarian Cancer people get that look....
So what do you tell your family? I told the truth, I have it, I'm worried and we'll go to the highest power. (Prayer) Tomorrow we are going to church together. We'll pray and ask God to get us through this, make me well, and give me another 30years to love and enjoy my family. January 18th is my surgery date and I'm working towards a positive attitude. Our family is strong and we 're there whenever needed. I'm hoping they'll keep my spirits up.
I'll keep you posted...
Dorothy from grammology
remember to call gram
http://grammology.com
(8) Comments
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sj, thanks for the encouraging words...my family has been wonderful....
Your right they tell me they want to help and it makes them feel better. I do feel helpless and I have to get over that. Because I'll be starting chemo this week and that will also be trying.
My best,
Dorothy from grammology
remember to call gram
http://grammology.com
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Sue I didn't know your mom had cancer, I'll add her too my prayers. This is my first real day back. Came home from the hospital Friday.
Thanks for your comments...
My prayers,
Dorothy from grammology
remember to call gram
http://grammology.com
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Posted by: Sue F. on January 21, 2008 8:09AM EST
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Good Luck on your surgery, Dorothy. I will send you some healing Reiki. Keep a positive attitude. That is The Secret.
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Sue, thanks for the good advice. I will lean on my family, and they have said we expect it and will see you through this.
All my best,
Dorothy from grammology
remember to call gram
http://grammolgy.com
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sj, I'll pray for your dad. I've been told my faith is a very important part of this process.
Thanks for the thoughts and kind words..
Dorothy from grammology
remember to call gram
http://grammology.com
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Posted by: sj on December 31, 2007 10:53AM EST
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Posted by: Sue F. on December 31, 2007 7:45AM EST
Lean on your family and let them take care of you. It does as much good for them as it does for you, believe me. I know I'm always searching for ways to make mom and dad's lives easier even if all I do is listen when they have a bad day.
I'll keep you in my prayers. Be strong.
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