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A Beacon Of Hope
Posted by: BethJ007 on June 13, 2007 at 2:52PM EST

I just wanted to write this for all of the high schoolers that read this blog. Having just completed my first year of college, I feel like I might have some helpful insight to those younger then me.

I had all of the typical high school and middle school experiences: I made friends, I lost friends. I failed at some things, I succeeded at some things. I was teased, I was complimented. I loved, I lost. And I survived it all.

I know it is hard- I had moments that I thought, "This cannot possibly get any worse." And my mom would say "Don't worry honey- in 10 years you will look back at this and laugh", which would make me so mad because I thought she had no idea what it was like. But even though it has just been a few years I can see how I have a better perspective on things now.

So my advice is this: having gone through it all- friends stabbed me in the back, I didn't get the lead role in the school musical my senior year that I had worked four years for, boys that I liked didn't like me back, I had classes I never thought  I would pass- when something bad happens that you think is really terrible, just appreciate the good stuff you have going on. All of the petty issues in high school virtually disappear in college. There is hope, I promise. So keep your chin up!

(5) Comments
Posted by: Chandler DeWitt on June 27, 2007 10:14AM EST
I agree, I sometimes go through harsh weeks of practices, school, and homework; but after I realize how it all builds up my character and gets me ready for life ahead of me, I can be content.

Posted by: Whitney Hagan on June 19, 2007 9:26AM EST
I agree. I think many times teens become self absorbed or they put to much emphasis on school and the drama that goes along with that. Many parents just take it as we are selfish and we never think of anyone but ourselves, but i think its just so easy to fall into your own highschool life and forget about the bigger issues and like Haylee said what we have to be grateful for. I think that many teens don't even know whats really going on in the world. I have even been guilty of not being up to date on major news events. But when we step back and look at the bigger issues of the world, and of our own highschool we can put our lives into perspective and we can become less focused on "us" and the drama. This is a great piece of advice!

Posted by: Haylee Mitchell on June 14, 2007 11:15AM EST
this is such a great blog. its so true; when you are in high school and going through these situations, you feel like they will never go away. I am going to be a senior and have been through a lot with my friends and family, but even being the summer, i have realized these hard times do pass and there is so much to look forward to and be grateful for.

Posted by: Cheer87 on June 14, 2007 10:08AM EST
I am making my best friends in college. Everyone is more mature and they respect you much more. Your teachers treat you like adults and they expect you to do your work, however if you need help don't hesitate to ask. You'll still go through ups and downs durning college, especially during the first few months as you leave home and have to adjust to the change of being away from home and your parents, but don't give up. It will get better and you will LOVE it! It's a new, exciting journey in your life that you will want to continue on for the rest of your life--but then you realize that you have to grow up sometime and must graduate. I was the girl during high school who counted down the days until the end of the year, but college just flew by. Yes, it was a lot of work, but hanging out with all of your friends and making great memories makes up for it!

Posted by: juff on June 14, 2007 7:35AM EST
I agree that so many petty issues in high school seem to fade in college. I do think this is somewhat a result of the maturing process. In high school we seem to be so self-focused. It all seems to be "about me." As we mature, we learn to let some of the little things go by the wayside. Even as a mother we need to remind ourselves to appreciate the good stuff we have going on!! Thanks for your post!!

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