On Saturday I did something I have never done before, and never wish to do again. I got in my first car accident.
It's funny because I have had my license for two years and have never so much as been pulled over. When I first started driving I was overly careful, coming to a prolonged stop at every stop sign and never pulling out if there was so much as a hint of a car coming my way. But as time wore on and I became more comfortable, I also became more confident. Every time I left the house it was my mom's ritual to say, "Drive safe!" to which I usually rolled my eyes. It would always irritate me because it was like she didn't trust that I was a good driver.
Well I had to learn the hard way that even good drivers aren't immune to making mistakes. I was slightly lost and trying to figure out where I was when I got hit at an intersection, went over the median, and came to a stop in the turn lane of the opposing traffic. I knew I wasn't hurt, but I immediately burst into tears. A woman came and offered to call someone, so I picked up the phone from where it had flown on the floor and handed it to her so she could call my dad.
The next hour was agonizing. About twenty minutes after the wreck I was still sitting in my car bawling. A police officer came and gently said that I could take off my seatbelt now. My dad finally arrived and I sobbed into his chest for a good 10 minutes.
Thankfully, I wasn't hurt and neither was anyone else. My car didn't come out so lucky- we think it's probably totaled. But it was a very humbling experience. Being a good driver does make you less likely to get in a wreck but it doesn't make you immune to it.
So to anyone that is just starting to drive- it CAN happen to you. And it is so scary. So don't get lazy with your driving and don't get overly confident. I know it's dramatic, but it might just save your life.