I am 16 years old and I play a sport year round. I would consider my self fit and of average weight for my height. I have many friends who are obsessed about their weight and they have begun to diet. It makes me crazy to see these beautiful teenage girls at sleepovers or birthday parties not participating in birthday cake or ice cream becasue of their restrictive diets. In my personal opinion, teens SHOULD be healthy and aware of their weight, however; they SHOULD NOT diet or change their eating habits dramatically. If a teen feels overweight or unhealthy I believe they should add more fruits and vegetables to their diet and maybe cut back on TONS of carbs and sweets, NOT CARBS all together. As teenagers, our bodies are growing and changing everyday, and it is important that we get more carbs then the average adult to keep up with our changing bodies.
I think that teens actually get a lot of pressure about their weight from their own parents. I know that people think that their kids are beautiful no matter what, but many parents may slightly hint at a change in diet or a weight problem and they do not understand the effect it has on their kids. Especially with girls their moms need to be really careful becasue they look up to them a lot and their own eating habits will affect their child's. I have noticed that when a girl's mom is thinner than she is, it really distorts the daughter's self image. I am not saying that all moms have to gain weight and MUST out weigh their daughter, but especailly in our society today when many mom's are trying to lose weight make sure that your daughter does not feel like she is in a competition. Mom's have to be extra careful about what they say. Don't put your daughter on some "list" of dietary restrictions and keep them in the house around her. It just makes her feel like she is huge and everyone around her is allowed to eat. If she really has a problem In my opinion the best solution is exercise.
I believe that teenage kids should be able to eat whatever they want and just "exercise it off". Especially when our metabolisms will allow it. I understand that this might not be possible for all young teens, but a slight change in diet or addition of healthy foods is sufficient. Teens should enjoy themselves and feel like they don't have to worry about food yet. Parents need to back off. Get outdoors. Enjoy This time in your life!