I just joined today.  I am very dismayed.  Our 11yo son has anger problems.  Tonight he attacked my husband, punching, throwing furniture,  he pushed me (his mum) and wanted to go after his younger brother 8yo. 

 He wouldn't eat the evening meal with us,  so we said that he could not cook himself anything later on.  He eats now with us or not at all.  So of course he tried to cook himself something and we said no.  And it went from there.

 Do others have this problem?   I am scared,  scared he's going to hurt one of us.

 We are in familiy counselling,  this is ruining our marriage - I'm just lonely and don't know where to go.

Lise