I've been back to college campuses lately, but this time as a parent, from a very different angle. My family is on the college visit journey, touring classrooms, facilities, dorms and sitting through information sessions. It's hard not to feel a bit jealous -- with all the opportunity and fun that lies ahead.

It seems that college life has changed in so many ways; it's certainly a wireless world out there. Looking around, everyone was connected to an iPod or cell phone and laptops appear essential. But, thankfully, some of college life seems to resemble my decades-old experiences. Our college tour guides bubbled with youthful, honest enthusiasm about Greek life, parties, best places for coffee, and favorite hang outs. No wonder I feel (a little) jealous.

But I can't say I envy the position that our high schoolers are in. The college admissions process seems unbelievably competitive and complicated. I recently attended a parents' information at my daughter's high school, where groups simulated the admissions committee thought process, using some real-life applications (the names were changed to protect the innocent.) Just to get into college, it seems as if our high school students have to build an incredible resume of grades, AP classes, community service and extracurricular activities. And there are certainly no guarantees – even for the most outstanding and qualified students out there.

The ultimate decision relies both upon the college admissions committee and our daughter's impressions and desires -- I guess this time we're here more for moral (and financial) support. I wonder, what are some other families experiencing as we approach this new phase?