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The higher you are the further the fall
Posted by: Daisy on November 9, 2007 at 11:22AM EST

Why is it that the parents of "Perfect" children always feel the need to take every opportunity to tell whoever is within earshot how great their children are. We all know people like this, the ones who's kids can do no wrong. Are the best at their sport, smartest in the their class, do the most volunteer work...yada,yada,yada ! Until ...that perfect child succumbs to " childhood " and makes a foolish choice or mistake. Where are the loud mouth parents then ? And what does it say about the rest of us, who silently listen while internally dancing a jig. Oh how the mighty fall.

In my experience I have learned to keep my mouth shut and not set my kids up for this. Lord knows they are average at best and if they experience all that life has to offer a teenager, as I did...They will make plenty of mistakes along the way.The last thing my children need is a bunch of parents ( whom I have encouraged with my bragging ) to be watching for their mistakes with silent jubilation.

(4) Comments
Posted by: juff on November 13, 2007 11:17AM EST
I am definitely the parent who sits back and listens. I brag about my children in front of my children. If the opportunity is right, I brag about them in front of others.

Posted by: Dore Frances on November 11, 2007 6:42PM EST
Remember .. it is not about the children .... it is about their parents.

They have to suffer their consequences too.

Posted by: Sue F. on November 10, 2007 11:30AM EST
I have a friend who thinks her two are perfect specimens. In my mind, she probably doesn't know half of what they do because no child is perfect. But she toots their horns at great length every time I talk to her (which is less and less lately). When the time comes for them to fall off of their pedestals, I'm sure I'll never hear about it (from her anyway).

Posted by: Lily on November 9, 2007 11:30AM EST
Yes, there is a German word for taking secret pleasure in other's misfortune! It's schadenfreude and this is what I experience when those perfect kids act totally normal, for once!

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