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May 2007
Thursday May 31, 2007
Permalink Posted by: Krisi at 2:08PM EST on May 31, 2007

(I'm leaving this message in several locations to share my strong opinion with others and see if anyone else feels the same. Is there anything we can do as parents to try to change this issue?)...

I can't imagine how hard it must be for you teachers with all the paperwork your normal school day leaves you with and then to add grading homework on top of it!

 I am a full-time Mom who happens to like the time I spend with my kids. No offense, but I HATE HOMEWORK! Geesh. Why can't the system teach my kids what they need to know the 7 hours a day 5 days a week that they have my kids? These poor kids come home from school after putting in a full day and then are expected to sit for another 1/2 hr - 2 hours and do MORE SCHOOLWORK! It ticks me off. I feel home time should be home time and school time s/b school time! What about time to play outside, to play a fun sport or take up a musical instrument, dancing lessons etc. or to spend time helping Mom cook, reading, going to church, FAMILY TIME!

These kids get no break from school and these teachers are left w more work / time grading papers! Is there a way this can be stopped? I don't know about the rest of parents but I would like to send a letter at the beginning of the school year and let my kids teachers know that we expect them to be great students... compliant, respectful, etc. but that due to family priorities, my kids do not participate in homework. As long as they are fully applying themselves while AT SCHOOL and are responsible, respectful, honest kids... I care about their character much more than their grades. Let them do really well in class, but still only get a C because they do not do homework. That'd suit me just fine. 

Friday May 25, 2007
Permalink Posted by: "CC" at 2:23PM EST on May 25, 2007
Thank you for your advice and comments.  I feel much better! I guess that in my line of work I hear and see a lot-and I think Oh that's normal or ok- but when it is your child you see things differently.  This has opened my "eyes" in a whole new way.  Thanks for your comments-CC
Wednesday May 16, 2007
Permalink Posted by: juff at 12:20PM EST on May 16, 2007
The arrival of summer seems to bring the arrival of 100 new movies at the theater.  It seems like the ratings for children's movies are all over the map.  I know a lot of my friends use www.screenit.com or www.moviemom.com   to determine if a movie is appropriate for their age child.  I am rather strict in that my rule (at least for now) is that PG-13 movies can be viewed when you  are 13.  My 10-year old son and I clash over this one occassionally but not too often. There is obvioulsly no right or wrong answer to this but I am just curious, what are the rules in your house about the movies your children can see?
Monday May 14, 2007
Permalink Posted by: A R at 2:00PM EST on May 14, 2007

I have a 9 1/2yr old boy and a stepdaughter 10 1/2 that come sover every other weekend.  We have been together now as a family a little over 2 1/2yrs.

We have noticed lately that they seem to grab on each other alot while in the pool and have reason to think they have been "touching each other".  Even though this is normal we are trying to address this and handle this the best way possible without making them feel bad about it but at the same time addressing that it is not okay especially since they are step siblings.  This is very uncomfortable for both of us as parents.  We have mentioned it to them and will watch them closer but still feel we should address it better.  HELP>>>

Permalink Posted by: "CC" at 1:12PM EST on May 14, 2007
I need advice!! I have an eight year old daughter in the 3rd grade (abourt to turn 9).  I have "caught" her a couple of times masturbating in her bedroom.  I guess she is masturbating, she is rubbing herself.  I was of course devastated, she's only a child!! We are a Christian family that does not tolerate X-rated shows or talk in our home. I closely monitor what my children listen to and watch on TV.  She does not even know about sex.  I talked with her to get her feelings and all she would say is it feels good. She does not seem to understand the importance.  I am a social worker, so of course my first fear was automatically sexual abuse!! Which I talked to her about.  Please help-is this normal, is she maturing early ?????
Friday May 11, 2007
Permalink Posted by: iberyoung at 5:39PM EST on May 11, 2007
Does anyone have issues with their school focusing on test performance over well rounded learning?



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